Monthly Archives: November 2013

4 Reasons To Stay


When looking through resumes for an open position we are hiring, one of the first things I look at is length of time at each job. It almost doesn’t even matter what the job was. I want to see if this person is willing to commit long enough to be effective. I see a lot of resumes where it is obvious that when the job gets “real”, they move on to the next one. I have been at dinners with other leaders where most of the conversation is based on what they want their next gig to be.

There are many legitimate reasons for leaving a job, but I also believe there are great reasons to stick it out. Here are 4:

1. It shows loyalty

When I am hiring someone, I want to know if they are going to be loyal to the team. The first indication of loyalty is how long they were at their former positions. If you are just looking for the next, great thing, I am not interested.

2. It takes time to see results

I believe that it takes at least 2-3 years to see real results at a new position. It takes a year to feel comfortable, and at least another year to see fruit from the changes. Most professional coaches are given 3 year contracts when they join a new team. They have 2 years to build their system and 1 year to get results from it.

3. Every job has issues

There is no perfect job. Without some resistance, we will never produce at our highest level. Most songwriters write their best songs when life is against them. The hero’s of the Bible were most effective for God after a period spent in the dessert. No matter how great a position is, there will be times when you hate it. The exponential results happen after you press through it.

4. Stability produces excellence

Amazing results do not happen overnight. If there isn’t time for the refining and rebuilding process, it will never be the best. So many people leave or give up when they are on the brink of producing something great. That’s where the hard work is.


Leader Burnout


I had the opportunity last week to hear Mark Miller from Chick-fil-A speak at an event that I was facilitating for Leadership Network in Dallas. Mark was sharing about how they have built a leadership culture at Chick-fil-A, and he said one of the keys to sustained leadership development is the capacity of the leader. Humans have finite capacity, but well-built structures have the ability to have infinite capacity.

I wonder how many of our small group systems take that fact into account? When your structure is built solely on the perseverance of the leaders, it will eventually stop growing. There is only so much that a leader, especially a volunteer leader, can produce before something has to give.

Here are five things that you can build into your structure that will allow your leaders to continue to grow without burning out:

1. Build in breaks to the schedule.

We cannot expect our leaders to continue to thrive if they are not stepping back from the whirlwind occasionally. In football, it doesn’t matter how dominating your defense is. If they are playing every down of the game without breaks, they will start giving up ground. There are natural breaks every year where leaders should be encouraged to take a  breath and not worry about pulling off a normal meeting. They are usually refreshed and fired up to come back to it afterwards.

2. Provide easy to use curriculum.

If you are expecting your leaders to build their own Bible studies every week, there will be eventual burnout. There are great DVD based studies that take a lot of the prep-work out of it. It’s always a great idea to provide studies to go along with the messages on Sunday. The homework is showing up on Sunday, and it reinforces the message beyond just one day.

3. Train leaders to share the work.

Leaders are missing opportunities to disciple if they are doing everything for the group. The workload should be shared, not only to help the leader, but also to help group members discover their gifts. Each element of a group meeting should be carried by a different person, including facilitating the discussion.

4. Allow leaders to step away

While we would love every leader to continue leading their group forever, the reality is that leaders need to occasionally completely step away from it for a season to be healthy. Build in the value of having an apprentice leader so they can be ready to step in and continue the group. This might be a great opportunity for the leader to move more into a coaching role for a semester.

5. Model a healthy balance.

If you are not taking Sabbaths, you are not displaying a healthy ministry life for your leaders. The structure is only as strong as its leader. Ministry is a marathon, not a sprint. You have to model the balanced life that you want your leaders to be living.